hey, I'm BOBBI
Relying on yourself for your income is a double-edged sword. On one side we're in FULL CONTROL. On the other, we have NO CONTROL.
But I'm here to tell you that life is like that no matter where you go. So why not LEARN TO SHOW UP FOR YOURSELF, doing the thing you love to do?
FEEL THE FEAR...
And let me tell you, it was scary as all sh*t. I was shooting any wedding I could get, for any client. I was also wearing golden handcuffs--the secure job with benefits and a pension--and it was comfortable. But I was miserable.
And so, after DECADES, I walked my ass away from the office with a window that I HATED because the office symbolized all the dreams I kept in a box.
I finally admitted I was scared. Scared of scarcity. And scared of believing in myself.
I met a mentor who reminded me how to dream. She asked me, if I could do anything, what would it be?
It broke my brain. The only 'dreams' I had were ideas instilled from a childhood raised in fear and a society based in scarcity, that told me I had to trust someone else. That my dreams were silly. That I couldn't actually be a FULL TIME PHOTOGRAPHER for REALS. And I scoffed out loud at the inner voice that said I COULD MAKE IT as a photographer.
I didn't even know what MAKING IT was. Because I hadn't dreamed it. I hadn't said YES.
so how did i go from GIVING MY PRECIOUS LIFE TO A CORPORATION while SHOOTING WEDDINGS THAT DIDN'T MAKE MY HEART SING, to booking dream clients and making 6 figures?
I learned to stop trying to be like everybody else. I learned to be unabashedly me, to trust my photographic eye, and to stop doing the things I didn't believe in. It translated into a CONSISTENT 6-FIGURE INCOME, and a deep satisfaction in who I was.
And now i'm going to help you BELIEVE IN YOU.
When I realized my inborn beliefs were why I was unsatisfied living two lives, why I wanted to be like anybody but me, why I constantly undervalued my work and compared myself to others, I also realized I was the only one who could change it. So I started working with photography coaches to UP MY GAME and BELIEVE IN ME.
YES, I would do the work to SHOW UP for myself.
Bobbi is amazing.
and are a blessing to those who have you.'
giving space to those who need it
'You have a wonderful energy and are so good at
WHAT HE SAID:
- ABUL SHAH
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